— Jamie is a writer and DJ living in Chicago. She believes every t-girl deserves to feel like the leading lady of her own rom-com.
Not in a predatory sense, but in a protagonist sense. It’s about flipping the script from “Will they accept me?” to “Do I want them ?” Let’s be real: dating while trans is playing a video game on hard mode. We deal with chasers, with “polite” rejections, with the exhausting labor of educating every new crush. sadie hawkins tgirl
The first time I walked up to a cis-het guy at a concert and said, “Hey, I think you’re cute. Buy me a taco?”—his jaw dropped. Not because I was trans, but because a woman had dared to take the lead. We dated for six months. — Jamie is a writer and DJ living in Chicago
